Sunday, November 8, 2015

United Families



This has been an amazing time with my family this month.  I usually spend about 3 weeks in the States when I come home from Honduras.  Usually 3 weeks are about all the girls can do without them getting a little antsy.  However, this time, we had Ken and Katrina Bethea stay the first week I was gone.  Mr. JOE, the granddad of the farm came also. I don't know what I would do without Mr. Joe, that steps in, when I have to step out.   We had Kelsey McHugh who helped with the girls and the director of the girl's new private school, Jake and his wife, Rachael and some of their teachers, who would fill in as needed, keeping the girls focused.

 This was the longest time I have been home to the States in years.  I was to go to my niece's wedding, and be with my mom and dad, stayed with my brothers and sisters and my kids. I got to spend a few days solid, with my grandchildren, going to the movies, picking and boiling peanuts, watching movies and having sleep overs at the family's log cabin. We stomped around the farm and went to Wild Adventures and it was pretty wild.   WE had a large time together.  I loved it and I needed it.  
The Grands
  I saw a lot of my friends and just missed seeing others, but at least I got to touch base.  I met new friends, who are planning to come down one day on a mission and checked in at my church, with Crosspointe's Missions Pastor, Deron Roberts.  I bought school shoes for the girls, who are attending the private bi-lingual school, (Abundant Life Christian School),  at Payless shoes with their by one get the other half price.  People brought in a plethora of very nice dresses and jeans, through my sister-in-law, Susan Steel.  People sent books and other things for the farm to be shipped shortly from the States to Honduras.  It was a very productive time for the ministry, but mostly to me getting to spend time with so many special caring people. 

All that was wonderful, but the best time was preparing for the wedding of my daughter Charisa.  All my girls are list oriented.  I don't know where they get that, but that was not a skill I passed down the family tree.  She and her fiancee' , Mark Lakin, had most of everything under control.  I just had some small jobs to do.  

It was a beautiful wedding to be sure. My dear life long friends, Robin and Kendall Noethe, have catered all my girl's weddings and my son's rehearsal dinner.  They out did themselves yet again. I can not say enough about the gift of service and the  heart of this couple.  Charisa's florist did an amazing job of decorating the venue, called the Peach Barn.  There were a few hiccups in the planning, but Charisa was the most even tempered bride.  She was amazing.



 I have been so blessed at each one of my children's weddings.  I have the best sons-in-laws and daughter-in-law ever.  But what made this wedding different is that it incorporated my family in the States with my family that we raised in  Honduras, with Mark's huge family.   We had two of the girls, who are now women, from Honduras that now live Stateside with their husbands, attend the wedding.  Pat Schaer, Corrie and Daniel came.  They were part of our Honduran family for years.  They played an important part in getting us started on the mission field and of the raising of our girls at PTC.  When we all were assembled along with other family members, board members, and friends of the ministry, that started the first buildings at PTC and people who are very involved in so many ways helping us get the girls raised now. 
We were the group who the Scripture tells us, "that they will know us by the love we have one for another".   It was clear, we had so much love in that room.  So we had our big family and friends united with all of Mark's big family and his friends.  I was on an emotional overload.  I was so blessed, and am still reveling in the sweetest of our time together.  It is going to be like that on a grander scale one day when Jesus gets back.  It is going to be a grand wedding and everybody will joined as a huge family.  There was no Honduran or American group, just family.
My girls and their families

After the newlyweds left, we all jumped in and got the place where the wedding was held at the Peach Barn, back in order.  Nobody was in a hurry to leave really, but we slowly started getting things cleaned up. While cleaning up, I remember yet again how God told me that if I would take care of His kids, He would take care of mine.  God is so faithful.  He has and He continues to take care of me and mine.
The morning before the wedding


The thing is that the "mine"  (which are really His) is growing.  We have a 15 year old girl who is going to have a baby in January.  Her nine year old sister came with her to Project Talitha Cumi.  We have other girls who are on the way.  WE have other interns beside Ken and Katrina that will be walking with us.  We have Suzanne and Wesley Jarrard that are bringing building teams. We have already 13 teams that have planned to come January- June in 2016, who are coming to do medical outreaches and to build house number five.  The vision for the farm has always been for 6 houses.  We wrote down the vision and others have helped us run with it. 

Mary is going to St. Louis to study for the next year and a half!  While I was home I got the tickets.  She has her visa and thanks to Jake and Mirian, Andrea Durall and her husband,  she will be in St. Louis on the 8th of December.  I am amazed at all of the blessings God is sending to our family.  Pray for Mary to adjust to the snow and to life in the States and that God will keep her safe and secure and that in this time that she will grow in Him even more. 

Estephania and Lizzy graduate the first year of the 2 year LPN course.  WE have 5 girls graduating from High School on the 4th of December.  WE have so much to be thankful for.  Thanks to all of you that have helped us get to this point in the lives of the girls.  Thank you for being faithful, by you sacrificial giving and coming to invest into the lives of these wonderful girls.  Pray for all of our new girls and the girls who will be transitioning to college.  

A scripture that I have been hearing and praying,  is that everyone that I know, will know Him, and that they be filled with the fullness of God. I pray that scripture is incorporated in your families.   Blessings, from the Totally and Thankfully Full, Honduran MOM 




Mark Lakin,husband of Charisa

Thursday, October 1, 2015

Only God, Only Prayer


Greetings, 

WE have a girl who has her passport and her visa and an invitation to study for 2 years in St Louis!    I want to thank Andrea Durall and her husband for the invitation and I would like to thank Jake and Rachael, who walked Mary through the paperwork that is involved in getting a visa.  We are super excited that she is going to have this wonderful opportunity.  A lot of prayers went into this process.  I am so thankful to God how it came all together.  

When we went to the embassy last week, I knew I had to leave my cell phone outside, because of new rules of security procedures adopted by the embassy, however we had a few crazy things going on back at the ranch.  When you don't have your phone, you have to rely on prayer only. I had prayer only.   

WE left the day before, to get some errands run before our embassy/immigration visit.  We had all of Mary's documents for the visa and my documents to renew my residency card and were packed up and ready to go. If I have a residency card, I don't have to leave every three months and I don't have to have a return tickets to the States.  My return can be to Honduras.  My card had not expired yet, but I didn't want to pay the 100 dollar fine upon my return, and have to purchase another return ticket.   I had the tires changed on our little Nissan the day before and it was driving so much better.  I stopped the day of the trip to get the blinker lights fixed and the tail lights fixed at the electricians, got the car fueled up and all the levels check, which took up the whole morning.  While I was at the electrician's, I mentioned to him that when I would go to start the car, there was a delay in the switch and then I would have to crank it again.  He told me that would have to be for another day. 

The plan was to pick up Mary's mom and that was going really well, until we realized Mary's mom wasn't going to get out exactly early like we had hoped.  It is the law in the US embassy that Mary couldn't leave the country without Mary's mom being present at the embassy for her visa interview. So I was feeling confident, with my new tires and electrical stuff fixed, and all our paperwork.  I felt prepared.  Feeling extremely organizes, I felt I could be very generous with my time and pick up the girls who were working on a project with tomatoes, that they have to do for school.  Instead of carrying this huge load of tomatoes on the bus, I picked them up and drove them back to the farm.  I figured we have plenty of time. So I gave the High School girls a ride home with their cumbersome basket of tomatoes.  

I picked up the girls, the tomatoes and I remembered I needed to sign some checks when I returned to the farm.   As I drove up to the gate the car shut off.  I could't get it to crank again.  I looked under the hood of the car, and wiggled one of the cables from the battery and it fell off in my hand.  I guess that was going to be for that "other day" that the electrician was talking about.  So now we had to unload the NIssan of the girls, tomatoes, luggage, official papers, etc.  and put them in the HILUX, that was not ready to go.  It has been raining and it was extremely muddy.  It was making a noise since the last little mechanical disaster.  I was waiting for Mr. Joe to arrive so he could check on it.  So now I am am short on time, but I can still make it.  My plan was to be in a hotel room in Tegucigalpa before night.  

WE jump in the big truck, and off we go.   I had to go by the Texaco gas station and get diesel and get the levels checked and now it is 4:00 p.m.  When I get out of the truck to pay the bill, I noticed the spare isn't in the truck.  I call the farm.  The tire was taken out of the truck on the 15th when we marched for Independence Day and our truck was the float.  So I asked Katrina, our intern for the month of September to meet us in Yamaranguila with the tire.  She has been a trooper driving the girls where ever they needed to go.  The day laborer from the farm put the tire in the back of the back seat on the SUV where it was hard to get it back out. My hands were black and I was sweaty wrestling that tire from the Patrol.  Then I noticed the smell of gasoline.  I look under the car and Mary shows me that it is leaking.  I told them to call Don Jacobal and his son to come and try to fix it at the farm.  I prayed for Rosa and Katrina to arrive safely.  I prayed the Hilux would get us to Tegucigalpa and back safely.  WE leave to go back to La Esperanza, but now I am running late.   WE asked Mary's mom to meet us in the road instead of picking her up at her work. I made a call to my friend Sandi Burgess, who has a ministry in Comayagua called Enlaces, or Bridge Ministries.  I asked her if we could spend the night because I don't like to drive in Tegucigalpa at night. The Hilux has tinted windows and I can't see anything at night.  So we spent the night there.  I woke up at about 2 a.m. and finally got to sleep at 4 a.m. however that is when Mary's mom usually gets up to get her shower.  I was up.  So Sandy made us coffee and we were off again.  

Sandy told us to take the by-pass, but there was some landslides and so instead of getting off of the bi-pass before rush hour, we were right in the traffic.  It was stop and go traffic, more stopping than going.  I was trying to make our appointment at the US embassy.  I was thinking to hail a cab and put Mary and her mother in the cab so they would be on time, when I get a phone call.  Mary was answering the calls in the back seat, because it is illegal to talk or text while driving.  I hear screaming on the other end of the phone.  I asked "Who in the world is screaming???".  "The pregnant girl", Rosa, my faithful assistant said on the other line.  She is in labor, back at the farm.   This young girl, who had just turned 15 years old a few days prior to arriving at the farm is 5 months pregnant.  She was placed at PTC prior to our departure to the capital with her 9 year old sister by DINAF, the new children service division.  She is a sweet girl, but because of the pregnancy, she has a lot of food dislikes.  She doesn't like to drink water, and she only likes cokes and flavored bottles of faux orange juice.  I told her after we went to the OB/GYN, that she was going to have to drink more water and eat more than just beans and tortillas.  People in rural areas, don't drink the contaminated water and so they get used to drinking these sodas and drinks and a lot of coffee.  Because she had not been drinking water, she went into a condition of premature labor.  So if you remember the NIssan wasn't working.  The Patrol had a gas leak from the fuel line of the gas tank.  The girls that go to the bi- lingual school were leaving that morning in the bus, the NPR's battery is dead and so we have no transport for the screaming pregnant girl.  While I was stuck in traffic, I had plenty of time to pray.  Our calls kept dropping. I talked to the girl to tell her premature pains were normal and got her to breathe with me to get her relaxed.  The call dropped.  Then I got them back on the line and told Stephani to go with Rosa and tell the older girls to settle down and not keep talking about her losing the baby out loud.  (WE KNOW DRAMA AT PTC)  When I finally got a phone call to land, I told Rosa to call anybody local and asked them to come pick them up.  All of our regulars were not anywhere close, but thankfully God provided a driver. They carried her to the hospital.  Dr. John Tucher a missionary from La Esperanza, who is helping us from time to time, is an OB/GYN called and he told them to get some water into her.  She calmed off when they finally got to the hospital.  They hooked her up to IV's and she was better. 

Meantime, we get to the embassy, and I am trying to talk with Rosa, and so Mary and her mom go inside the embassy, and I am getting them breakfast and talking to Rosa.  I lock my phone up in the car and go inside the embassy.  They go through my bag and pull out my book I was going to read and a usb plug and usb jumpdrive. They tell me I can't come in with these Items, or the food.  So I carry everything back to lock it up in the car.  We wait 2 hours and Mary just lacked on paper, but it looked good that she would get the visa.  So we jumped in the truck and took the bi-pass, that I swore earlier in the day, that I would never go on again, and went to immigration to get my residency card renewed.  

I got to the immigration in record time and liked our drive on the bi-pass. I left Mary and her mom in the Hilux in the underground parking at the Mall.  I get into the immigration office and they process my paperwork punch a hole in my old card, put it in my file and say for me to wait for my name to be called for my new card.  I am just praising God that it is going so well.  Then, I get a wave to the front.  They said I need another paper.  I asked them which one might that be.  They wanted another document from our board in HOnduras.  I asked the supervisor, who was in charge, and clearly she hadn't eaten lunch or had just returned from a reunion of "Furious Anonymous".  She was clearly upset with me, for my shoddy gatherings of paperwork and she wanted a paper on another letter head.  I asked her how I could make this right, when she turned to walk away, and then she gave me some instructions to call my lawyer, and she would tell her what was needed thoroughly bothered with me.  I was leaving in 2 days at this point and my old residency card had a hole punched through it and would not scan.  So I raced over and Mary brought me my stamp for the ministry from the car. I told her and her mom to be praying.   I got a SKM letterhead and went to a secretarial service in the Mall and had them do a couple of things of copy and pasting, hoping that the lady would accept one of them.  I called Rosa to send me a fax.  I raced back over a busy street from the Mall and presented my new copy, praying the whole way that God would give me favor, because I knew none of these efforts is what the lady asked for.  I arrived and the serious minded supervisor, all of a sudden, changed her countenance and looked happy to see me, and said "This will be fine.  We don't need this other documents" and smiled and gave me my card.  I was thinking, "What in the world happened to her?".  Then it hit me that God must have hit her with happiness.  I received the favor I needed and jumped into the car and headed back to the farm.  

I was so sleepy.  I prayed that God would get us home safely.  I did fall asleep at the wheel at one point and almost clipped a gray car on a mountain road.  I scared me so bad, I was wide awake then. WE arrived safe and sound at the hospital in La Esperanza. I was prepared to stay with the pregnant girl at the hospital,because Rosa had been there all day.  I figured as tired as I was, I could sleep anywhere, but they said I couldn't stay.  So Rosa, who had been waiting outside in the waiting room all day, got into the car with us and we bought our little 15 year old, bottles of water, fruits and a enchilada.   

God has been so wonderful this month with us.  Prayer does work.  We have had people to help us there at the farm, at the school, at the hospital, on the road traveling, with our legal stuff, and even now Mr. Joe Reynolds is there with our girls so I could come home to be at my daughter's wedding.  I am so incredibly thankful, for Rosa and Lina, Anastacia, Mr. Joe, Mr. Jake and Rachael, Miss Katrina and Ken, Kelsey, Sandi, and a whole host of people, who kept watch over our girls while I am not there.  Thanks to Randy and Rich for getting our container here and all the people who contributed items that were inside.  Thanks to Deron, Gabe and Dan from Crosspointe Church for visiting us this month.  I thank JC and Jonathon for helping with my transportation in the States this month.  I thank all of you for your great support and all the prayers that you send our way.  Blessings to all of you in the extreme from the Praying Without Ceasing Honduran MOM.