Friday, January 4, 2013

Can These Bones Live??

Yes they can.  Bones are important.  Definition: A bone is any of the pieces of hard, whitish tissue making up the skeleton inhumans and other vertebrates.  The substance of bones is formed by specialized cells (osteoblasts) that secrete around themselves a material containing calciumsalts (which provide hardness and strength in compression) and collagen fibers. The support our human frame when all is working as God designed.  We found this out when the team from Friendship Baptist Church came to visit us the day after Christmas.  This church has been keeping this date after Christmas open to visit Project Talitha Cumi for the last years and we all look forward to their visit.

This year the pastor and one of our SIKM board members, brought his family down with him. Tom has been on our board for the last 6 years and his son had been to the farm a few years before and was so excited to be back.  It was Cindy's first time to be with us and Tom was so pumped that Cindy finally got to come down too.  We were probably just as excited that they were all here as they were.

About three o'clock in the morning there was a strong knock at my door.  I was awake and saw it was Joe Reynolds saying we needed to get to the hospital with JT, Tom's son.  I got in the truck and saw no one.  Then I heard them walking down the lane.  You just knew it wasn't good.  JT had fallen from his bunk bed at the mission house and had hit his head, and even in the dark of the super early morning hours you could tell it was a bad gash, and lots of blood.  He seemed not to occupied with the blood but was very aware of his wrist that he was holding so protectively.  He had fractured his wrist in the fall also.  We got everyone settled in the car and hit the first of many bumps along our horrible roads and we all knew that he was in extreme pain and that it was going to be excruciating for the young boy.

The ride was so hard on JT and his parents, who sandwiched him on either side.  They were trying to be of service and realizing that they couldn't comfort him at any level because he was in such pain.  We all were praying as Joe got us to our destination, which was a private hospital there in La Esperanza.

The Dr. Thelma sewed up his head which was an ordeal for JT but also for the mom and dad as they looked on.  She had to sew up the fleshy part of the wound before she could attempt to get the epidermis to close it up.  Cindy was wonderful in that she didn't pass out.  She would smile at her son and say comforting words to him and when he wasn't looking she would roll her eyes beyond their sockets trying not to absorb what she was having to look at.

After they wound was closed, we went to the x-ray department.  We were all in there with no lead aprons.  The doctor reviewed the x-rays and told us we would have to go to a orthopedic specialist located in Siguatepeque, two mountain ranges over from were we were and about an hour and a half away.  It was still early so they gave JT something for pain and nausea and he rested before the trip to the next doctor who didn't open until eight o'clock.

We got to the orthopedic doctor and he had to call in an anesthetist to put JT under so they could set the wrist correctly. He got a nice green colored cast at his request (his school colors) and off we went back up to the mountain to return to our farm and to the team who was anxious to see their fellow team members.

During the drive we received a phone call from the farm.  Apparently, the kindergartners were in recess and Mariela who is six years old.  She has a physical special need in that she can't walk without the help of her walker.  She has just started walking with the aid of her walker this year.  She was in a child's plastic swing that has the protective bar that keeps the child safely in the seat.  She pulled the protective bar upwards and fell out and because her legs could not support her she fell full weight on her elbow.  They told us to meet them at the same hospital that we left that morning.

When we arrived, Jerimiah and a couple of our older girls were there.  We all met in the x-ray room again with radiation filling the air, and held her arm so that they could take the different shots of her arm needed for the orthopedic doctor to see in Siguatepeque.  When Dr. Thelma put them up on the screen, she called the orthopedic to find out what we should do.  He said without seeing the x-rays he couldn't know for sure what to do.  So I had the idea to take a picture of the x-rays on the screen with my Iphone. (technology is amazing!) We sent them to his email, and he said she would have to come in.  So I asked Joe if he was up to another ride and he gave his typical response, "I am here to do whatever needs to be done".  He is such a wonderful servant of God.

So we get to the Dr. Silvo's office again and we have to go get another x-ray because he was looking at something odd that he couldn't figure out and he wanted to be sure before he did the surgery.  So we went across town and had the other x-rays made with some specialized machine and brought them back.  He said that she needed surgery to place pins in the bone that had chipped off in the fall.  He asked me how she fell and why didn't she just catch herself, and I explained her physical situation about her legs.  He asked about why she couldn't walk and I explained her history to him the best that I could.  He then told me that a team of surgeons were coming and that they were specialist in this type of trauma and she could be a candidate for the surgery!  She had the surgery later that night and she did so well.  She slept through with no problems with extreme pain and we left the next morning.

Although everything that transpired in those 28 hours was a little on the wildly extreme, I marvel at the way God helps us through trials.  Even though the events were horrible, we found that a surgical team was coming to an area of Honduras that we would have had no knowledge of if these circumstances had not  happened.  He is so Faithful at every level.

I pray as we go through this new year of 2013, that we all remember just how faithful the Lord is.  When crazy trials come, that we will look for His hand, even in those tough circumstances of life.  It is difficult to remember when our pain, or the pain of the ones we love is so excruciating, that God is there with us.  Jesus said at the the tomb of Lazarus that He knew that God always hears us.  He hears us, He is always with us, He is our God Emmanuel (God with us)  in 2013 and for all eternity.

I listed some phrases about bones below.  One of them that I had never heard was: what's bred in the bone will come out in the flesh (or bloodproverb a person's behavior or characteristics are determined by heredity.  I pray that God's heredity that He supplied to us through His Son to all of us will shine in our behavior and character this new year. 

Be blessed this New Year of 2013 from our Honduran Home to your Home.

a bag of bones .the bare bones be skin and bones a bone of contention a subject or issue over which there is continuing disagreementclose to (or near) the bone (of a remark) penetrating and accurate to the point of causing hurt or discomfort. destitute; hard up.cut (or pare) something to the bone reduce something to the bare minimum ( as) dry as a bone see dry .have a bone to pick with someone informal have reason to disagree or be annoyed with someone.have not a —— bone in one's body (of a person) have not the slightest trace of the specified quality there's not a conservative bone in his body.in one's bones felt, believed, or known deeply or instinctively he has rhythm in his bones something good was bound to happen; he could feel it in his bones.make no bones about something have no hesitation in stating or dealing with something, however awkward or distasteful it is they make no bones about the fact that their scheme amounts to a consumption tax.to the bone (of a wound) so deep as to expose a person's bone his thigh had been axed open to the bone figurative his contempt cut her to the bone. (esp. of cold) affecting a person in a penetrating way chilled to the bone. 2(or to one's bones) used to emphasize that a person has a specified quality in an overwhelming or fundamental way she's a New Englander to her bones he's a cop to the bone.throw a bone to give someone only a token concession was the true purpose of the minimum wage hike to throw a bone to the unions?what's bred in the bone will come out in the flesh (or blood)proverb a person's behavior or characteristics are determined by heredity.work one's fingers to the bone work very hard Tracy can work her fingers to the bone, but it's Ms. Green who gets the thanks.















Tuesday, December 4, 2012

It Is All About Thanksgiving


We have fish!!



When I got home there was so much stuff going on.  I hadn't been home for several weeks and there was a lot that I needed to attend to.  But the main thing was to attend to the girls.

Thanksgiving is the girls most favorite time of the year.  The girls made construction paper turkey's out of hand prints, and wrote Thank you notes to sponsors.  The kitchen was decorated with orange and red plastic table cloths and it looked absolutely  wonderful.  Anna Smith, Lauren Edwards and Linda Botkins were in charge of the decorating details.  We invited the workers and some of them brought families with them.  We invited a great group of folks.  The only problem was we gave them the wrong Thursday!  So we had to re-invite for a week earlier, which was less than a week's notice.  We had several people call and apologize why they couldn't come.  The girl's heart were set and so we didn't change our schedules. We found two turkeys in the market.  They were small and our group was supposed to be very large.

 One of our goats that we are raising was asked to make the ultimate sacrifice.  We moved the younger girls to the mission house to watch a Christmas movie so they wouldn't be traumatized.  I personally don't handle the slaughter side of our meat supply.  I don't like to hear the gun go off and some of our girls, older and younger, feel the same way.  I usually turn that over to the guys, who happen to be on the farm. This year it was Jerimiah Botkin and sons.  I don't mind dealing with the meat after the deed has been done.  But because I was cooking the day before on Wednesday, our older girls stepped forward and got the job handled, and the goat was ready to cook.

Linda Botkin was in charge of baking pies. She made lemon, pumpkin and pecans (I had them hidden in the ice maker that is not hooked up).   We had mustard greens growing from seeds donated from a seed store in Doerun, GA, and zucchini casserole, cornbread dressing,(not to be confused with Yankee stuffing that goes inside of a turkey, eckh!)  mashed potatoes, gravy and Angela made the yeast rolls. We had heavenly hash, and lots of real South GA sweet tea.

Even with the wrong dates we still had tons of folks, but you have to realize when the staff, workers and children get together, we are about 70 people, We had some court officials, some of our girls who have graduated from our farm, but come back for the holidays, and local people we just asked at the last minute.  I never really know how many will show up.

Who needed a football game to watch after the feast, when we could play kickball ourselves? It was a great game.  We all had such a huge day. But it was not over.  After our guest and fellow athlete's left, we got everything ready to go to the mission house to continue the festivities.

At lunch we eat Heavenly Hash.  The supper is comprised of pies and more pies.  While we are preparing to eat pies, the kids decorate the Christmas tree.  We give each child about 4 ornaments to place on the tree after Kansas and Angie Serritt got the lights up and working.  It doesn't take long when you have 33 girls with 4 ornaments.  It reminded me of the cartoon, "Charlie Brown's Christmas, when they decorated the ugly tree.  They stand around and furiously place their ornaments in a few minutes, voila' a perfectly finished tree.

Now our tree is pretty ugly.  This artificial tree has been around for a lot of years.  It is the type that used to be color coded.  The branches have lost long lost their color coded stickers on the end of the metal hanger.  The trunk, or center of the tree that the metal hangers hook on to are missing some key items.  But we strategically hide those from view and use a ton of lights.  I think the tree is just held together by wrapping extension cords and strings of lights to keep the branches of the tree in place.  The effect is quite nice.

After the tree we eat our pies, and then prepare to play secret friend.  Secret friend is so much fun for the girls.  We each get a name to buy a gift for.  The girls have to raise money by doing odd jobs around the house.  The limit is about 50 limps or $2.50 .  The girls take the secret very seriously.  I don't know why we call it secret friend because with all these girls it is hard to keep anything a secret but they really ponder over what they want to buy for their secret pal.  We all had the best time.

The Thanksgiving Party Animals






Rosey and Mary 

We had a graduations to attend in November.  Rosey graduated High School, and we had 6 other girls to graduate from the 6th grade.  WE were so proud of all of them.

WE had several Birthdays in November along with everything else that was going on.  So we decided to go for the big one.  We went to the beach for the day.  We hired a bus, and left at 4:30 in the early morning and drove to the Caribbean.  Many of the girls had never seen the ocean at all.  When they got there first face full of water, they marveled at the saltiness of the water.  They kept asking "Why is this water salty".  We ate a a local restaurant and got back on the bus, and headed for the long way home.

Finally, we got the fish for our fish pond and we are thankful!!.  David Aguilar a local farming engineer, brought us some fish to put in our cement pond.  We were all so excited.  WE will see how fast they grow off.  We were told that it would take a while because growth for fish is slow in cold water.  In the hot areas of Honduras the fish grow at an amazing speed.

I have found it to be true in my walk with God too.  We all tend to grow spiritually when the heat is turned up.  We begin to look to the only one who can bring that perfect peace when are eyes are focused on Him and we trust in Him.

I want to thank everybody that helped this month turn out to be such a successful time for the girls.  I want to thank, the members of our staff, our workers, and our board in Honduras and the board in the States who have stood beside us all the way.  We see the lives of the girls changing so fast. Thanks to all of you who have been blessing us by praying for our girls and the ministry that God has established. I want to maintain a thankful heart.

I pray you all have a blessed holiday season. The Holiday-Happening Honduran Mom

PS  We have a new girl.  She is 6 and her name is Maite.  Please be praying for her to get established here and that it will be a smooth transition.
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